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Retrospection

For two years I have thought almost constantly of the past; is it the immediacy of living in ever-changing motherhood that leaves me grasping for perspective? I don’t know. I think of the future, too. Here is a piece I … Continue reading

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You can take your Pretty Pusher and shove it

Now it’s not enough that women give birth. We’ve got to look good doing it too. If you can’t escape the Body Police when you’re bringing a  person into the world through your vagina, when the hell can you? At … Continue reading

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In your dreams, baby

Lately I’ve been dreaming I’m pregnant. When I’m asleep, that is. During the day I’m so very not-pregnant that no one even bothers anymore to say oooh, maybe you’re pregnant when I complain of nausea or tiredness. This could be … Continue reading

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Feminist mothers

It’s a curious fact that many women find motherhood is one experience which galvanises their feminist spirit. Whilst completing what might seem to be decidedly non-feminist actions in their daily lives, a lot of mothers are thinking. A lot. Women … Continue reading

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Hello Little Bean

I was going to save this story for a post on Bean’s birthday but this post by blue milk got me thinking. Positive birth stories really do carry power, and not just for helping the currently pregnant overcome anxiety. We are … Continue reading

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Serving to Live

Obama has talked a lot about service. Cynics say he’s trying to align himself with JFK (presumably minus the brains-being-blown-out part) and others say he’s just being practical – the mess is so big that it just can’t be cleaned … Continue reading

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Five books I wish I had read before having a baby

I’ve read a lot of books about pregnancy, birth and parenting. Some even before I was pregnant. But like most people, I didn’t know then what kind of parent I wanted to be, or what kind of challenges I would … Continue reading

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Weeping woman

For someone who writes about Spilt Milk, I don’t seem to do a lot of crying. At least not recently. I’m not sure when it happened, but my teariness seems to have dried up. When I was pregnant I was … Continue reading

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