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For the love of a good story

Birth stories are powerful stories. They are family lore, they are secret women’s business and women’s voices and feminist reclamation of the right to speak, they are bonding over chocolate biscuits at a newly formed mothers’ group, they are whispering … Continue reading

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Got milk? Got PCOS?

I have Polycystic Ovarian Syndrom (PCOS). It’s one of the reasons I’m fat, and had some problems with fertility, and may even explain why I’m a moody sooky-la-la some of the time. Maybe! I’ve known this for years. But what … Continue reading

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An unkind cut

The Guardian newspaper ran an article in November about the alarming rise in labiaplasty.  I had read that anecdotally, requests for cosmetic surgery to correct ‘problems’ with one’s vulva have increased exponentially in tandem with the pornification of our culture – the … Continue reading

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A more personal kind of linkage

Almost six weeks ago something terrible happened to a friend. Her baby daughter died. Even though I haven’t known this friend for very long, the nature of her loss was such that it had me reeling for days. I wept about it. … Continue reading

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The black dog’s a bitch

So I haven’t been around for a little while. I don’t know if it’s because of all that’s happened in the last few months or if it’s chemical, but it hit me the other day that perhaps the reason I’m … Continue reading

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You can take your Pretty Pusher and shove it

Now it’s not enough that women give birth. We’ve got to look good doing it too. If you can’t escape the Body Police when you’re bringing a  person into the world through your vagina, when the hell can you? At … Continue reading

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Serving to Live

Obama has talked a lot about service. Cynics say he’s trying to align himself with JFK (presumably minus the brains-being-blown-out part) and others say he’s just being practical – the mess is so big that it just can’t be cleaned … Continue reading

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More Facebook Flak

I’m doing my postpartum doula training with an organisation called Childbirth International, and through this, I’ve come in contact with passionate and dedicated women who are working in the childbirth ‘industry’. One such person is Emma Kwasnica, who has been … Continue reading

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Thanks for the mammaries

Breasts are pretty good multi-taskers. Biologically, they have a couple of very important purposes: nourishing offspring, and encouraging the male of the species to come help create said offspring in the first place. Culturally, they have a multitude of meanings. … Continue reading

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Five books I wish I had read before having a baby

I’ve read a lot of books about pregnancy, birth and parenting. Some even before I was pregnant. But like most people, I didn’t know then what kind of parent I wanted to be, or what kind of challenges I would … Continue reading

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