Tag Archives: birth

Guest post at Feministe: Feminist mothers

Cross-posted at Feministe. A few weeks ago an article by Clem Bastow, writer and feminist, was published in two major newspapers here in Australia, and subsequently responded to in op eds and countless blogs. In her piece Why having a … Continue reading

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Full fat milk

It’s no surprise that with the Obesity Pandemic FAT RAMPAGE headlines still dominating any ‘health’ or ‘parenting’ media, there are a lot of (often unfounded) fears and prejudices about fat pregnancies, fat births and fat mothering out there. (Did you … Continue reading

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When fighting rape culture means changing birth culture

Trigger warning on this post: sexual violence and birth trauma/coercion* Over at Feministe, there is a series of posts underway for Sexual Assault Awareness month. This amazing piece by abby jean (please read it) highlights why we cannot fight sexual … Continue reading

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Words words words

Inspired by first the egg, I’ve made a Wordle out of the story of Bean’s birth. I love how the largest word is ‘felt’. Because that’s what I’d like to remember it as: full of emotion and sensation. I’ve also … Continue reading

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For the love of a good story

Birth stories are powerful stories. They are family lore, they are secret women’s business and women’s voices and feminist reclamation of the right to speak, they are bonding over chocolate biscuits at a newly formed mothers’ group, they are whispering … Continue reading

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The myth of the mindless mother

When it comes to women’s behaviour, a lot is put down to ‘hormones’. News flash: this tendency is often a vestige of our unenlightened medical past, when ‘hysterics’ were thought to have been literally sent mad by their bodily femaleness … Continue reading

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An unkind cut

The Guardian newspaper ran an article in November about the alarming rise in labiaplasty.  I had read that anecdotally, requests for cosmetic surgery to correct ‘problems’ with one’s vulva have increased exponentially in tandem with the pornification of our culture – the … Continue reading

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Pretty pushy (reply turned post)

One of the things I’ve learned from blogging is that the interest a post generates is unpredictable. I have a pretty low traffic flow here, but there are a few search terms that keep getting me hits. (Salma Hayek’s breasts, … Continue reading

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A more personal kind of linkage

Almost six weeks ago something terrible happened to a friend. Her baby daughter died. Even though I haven’t known this friend for very long, the nature of her loss was such that it had me reeling for days. I wept about it. … Continue reading

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Body and soul

I  recall pregnancy as a time of great fascination with my bodily functions. And I don’t just mean in the crude pee-in-a-cup-for-the-doctor and tell-the-midwife-what-your-discharge looks like kind of way. What I mean is that pregnancy, birth and breastfeeding have been … Continue reading

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