Entries from May 2009

May 12, 2009

A mother’s work is… done?

I had a delightful conversation with my stepmum, J, this morning. ‘Happy Mother’s Day, for Sunday…’ I had ventured. Hoping she’d sense that I felt contrite, even though I could not say that the reason I had not called her was because a conversation that morning about my biological mother had left me feeling so raw [...]

May 11, 2009

On classroom scrums and rugby scum

Trigger warning – this post is about sexual assault and rape.
Around this time, roughly five years ago, I was standing in a class room at a prestigious private school, attempting to be an English teacher. I had to work pretty hard that day to keep my ‘teacher hat’ on instead of flying into screaming banshee [...]

May 7, 2009

Happy Mother’s Day

In Australia it’s Mother’s Day this weekend.
I’m ambivalent. Do I like an excuse to be sentimental? Always. Am I happily anticipating the artwork and treasures Bean will make for me once she’s old enough? Undoubtedly. Do I expect a lovely breakfast and a present from my husband on Sunday?  Hell yeah.
Of course I have qualms about [...]

May 7, 2009

International No Diet Day

Yesterday was International No Diet Day. I’ve been working on this post for a little bit, but then took a mini hiatus, so I didn’t get it ready in time. I’m so bad.
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I made the mistake of watching some of The Biggest Loser this year. It started as a bit of an in-joke with The Fireman [...]

May 4, 2009

Bean counter

Since Little Bean almost never* watches television, today she had her first encounter with The Count from Sesame Street. I was in another, smaller room at the time (I know, I know, you’re supposed to watch telly with the child. But how, I ask you, does one watch telly with the child and use the telly to distract [...]

May 3, 2009

Further reading

I know some of you drop by my blog to check up on me because you know me in reality land. Or because you searched for ‘girl milking penis’. (Yep, that’s the most common google search I get popping up in my stats… I so delight in disappointing so many who pass by here…)
Anyway, if [...]